Well the same thing applies to her emotions and decision making process.If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…
” all the time, she’s not going to get any emotional value from interacting with you over text.
Don’t think of texting as a way of exchanging data, think of it as a way of giving her feelings (which she then associates with you).
In other words, when you learn that 1 1 = 2, you don’t need to learn anything else to understand it better. Texting is more like learning how to speak another language, or play an instrument, or learning a sport. With that said, let’s dive into the five principles of texting.
Principle #1 – You must think about things from her viewpoint – You probably don’t realize what the daily reality of an attractive girl is.
Let’s start with how to actually learn about texting.
The first thing you need to know is that learning how to text a girl is not like learning math. Most guys won’t bother reading a post like this, and so you’ll be way ahead of them and have an unfair advantage.
That being said, I know it’s important for people to speak their truth and that part of that truth is not just communicating your lack of interest but that you find such talk so early on offensive. You get to decide what interests you, what you’re comfortable with, and what attracts you.
If this is the case, be clear with yourself that speaking up is something that you are doing for you, regardless of whether or not it changes anyone’s mind or behavior. Don’t let what everyone else is doing change or influence your personal boundaries or limits.
She only has so much available attention, and everyone wants a piece of it. I means that she’s not going to respond to your texts just because you want her to.